Sunday, March 7, 2010

"When you grow up, you can be whatever you want to be"


"When you grow up, you can be whatever you want to be."well this is the most common dialogue heard in the society!!!!!!but the most pulling back issue about this is people consider this apt only to boys whereas girls are always reminded of"WHAT NOT TO DO",this is a common scene in developing countries.people! let me remind you society includes women also!!MALE CHAUVINISM creates remorseless cycles of discrimination!!!Now this is a call to all those girls-stop feeling pity !!"Don't let our identities to be forged" and "Don't let any one to declare you as second-rated"!!!
Gender discrimination has lately taken ugly forms like(mostly in developing countries)

  • Female infanticide
  • Physical abuse
  • Sex trafficking
  • Depriving of education
  • FEMINIZATION of POVERTY(yes this is true,according to study women are increasingly the ones who suffer the most poverty) and many more to add.
But yes there are solutions to these problems through various acts proposed by different governments,the only backdrop is that they don't reach to the people!
The other persistent problem in this tech savvy world is

"Women Work More Than Men But Are Paid Less"

According to a study women cultivate more than half of food that is grown and other such example is cricket!!In country like India cricket is a religion but "do women cricketers get the same benefit as do their counterparts?"The root cause of all of these problems is lack of education.self confidence,social fear!!
Here are some of the links which deal with gender discrimination

www.awid.org
www.pdhre.org/rights/women.html.
"All the women there come out of cocoons,dump hatred,grow respect and fight against the gender inequality"


Saturday, March 6, 2010

Gender discriminations in india - krish

Sociologically the word gender refers to the socio-cultural definition of man and woman, the way societies distinguish men and women and assign them social roles. The distinction between sex and gender was introduced to deal with the general tendency to attribute women's subordination to their anatomy. Gender is seen closely related to the roles and behaviour assigned to women and men based on their sexual differences. As soon as a child is born families and society begin the process of gendering. The birth of the son is celebrated, the birth of a daughter filled with pain; sons are showered with love, respect, better food and proper health care. Boys are encouraged to be tough and outgoing; girls are encouraged to be homebound and shy. All these differences are gender differences and they are created by society. Gender inequality is therefore a form of inequality which is distinct from other forms of economic and social inequalities. It dwells not only outside the household but also centrally within it. It stems not only from pre-existing differences in economic endowments between women and men but also from pre-existing gendered social norms and social perceptions. Gender inequality has adverse impact on development goals as reduces economic growth. It hampers the overall well being because blocking women from participation in social, political and economic activities can adversely affect the whole society. Many developing countries including India have displayed gender inequality in education, employment and health. There are vast differences in education level of two sexes. India has witnessed gender inequality from its early history due to its socio-economic and religious practices that resulted in a wide gap between the position of men and women in the society. . UN Secretary General Kofi Annan has stated, "Gender equality is more than a goal in itself. It is a precondition for meeting the challenge of reducing poverty, promoting sustainable development and building good governance." There is a need for new kinds of institutions, incorporating new norms and rules that support equal and just relations between women and men. Today women are organizing themselves to meet the challenges that are hampering their development.

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hello every one....some where in this blog i read,dis is JAB(not Just Another Blog)....we have to prove that rather than saying that.......this blog should not meant for copying some information from net and again upload into this blog as the new post....its makes no sense....do not make this blog a platform for debating.....instead of just posting your views,discuss the problems of the various fields and sectors that are being faced by country like technically backward,poverty line,how to remove poverty,building a strong educational system and lot other.....do not discuss more about faults in any system.... in spite discuss about the ideas to be implemented to remove the flaws in system....it would be ideal if you implement the ideas after coming to conclusion with the blog members or the people around you who agrees with your ideas.....

gender discrimination in india

India having rich cultural heritage and great history couldn't do much for the women community over centuries and unfortunately this pathetic situation still prevails . some unusual norms have been created and adapted by people which seem rubbish where in men are supposed to work and earn for living where in women are confined to kitchen .this is certainly not the way where preferences are awarded based on gender and it holds no sense .For a developing country like indian it is of atmost importance to uplift the women community and create enough oppurtunities for them to flourish .I very much believe in creating a better nation by encouraging women to join politics and serve the nation,with women's reservation bill on the cards this is very much possible .The world economic forum in its 2009 repot on global gender disparities ranks india 114th in a list of 134 countries.Given the troubling statistics starting with the worsening sex ratio in the 0-6 age group in the population,eliminating the gendergap in its various dimensions should be a top political priority for rising india.Hence a greater representation of women in legislatures and parliament is likely to force a shift of focus this proirity.The world over,women's empowerment and advancement have had a beneficial impact on politics ,the economy,health ,education ,culture and society.so it is vital for us to join hands to curb this menace of gender disparities and thus contributing our bit for a brighter society.

GENDER DISCRIMINATION - Kiranmayi

1.Discrimination is usually referred as a negative term.

2.Discrimination can be defined as restricting, degrading or excluding an individual or a group or a community or a religion from the society.

3.Discrimination is usually practiced by people who are conservative in their ideology or people who treat themselves as superior to other individuals.

4.Discrimination is of many forms some of them are:

a)Religious discrimination

b)Caste discrimination

c)Gender discrimination or sexism

5.In India all forms of discrimination are being practiced, since ages.

6.One of the major discrimination is discrimination based on gender.

7.Gender discrimination is a discrimination between men and women.

8.Gender discrimination has its roots in the different religions, practiced across the world.

9.Practically all religions are male dominated,with women being relegated to a much lower level than men.

10.Some forms of gender discrimination preached by religions are:

a)Women is regarded as unclean when she menstruates,is treated as untouchable and is not allowed in places like temples, kitchens.

b)She becomes untouchable after childbirth until she undergoes a ritual cleansing.

c)she is described as a temptress or a whore in the Hindu scriptures.

d)She has to undergo fasting for the well-being of her husband.

e)She has to cover herself from head to foot in order not to weaken the man’s purity of resolve, which is practiced in Islam.

f)She is supposed to have been created by God from Adam’s rib,as an afterthought, and God is a man (as preached in Islam)

g)She is being burnt at the stake accused of being witches to honor killings that still continue in places like India, Pakistan, and other Islamic countries.

11.Women are discriminated at workplace as they are being paid less when compared to their male counterparts for the same work.

12.The most practical example can be seen in the game of tennis. Female players are awarded with less cash price on winning, when compared to male players.

13.Discrimination against females is a stark reality that affects large portions of the society across the develpoing countries.

14.some forms of gender discrimination in developing countries are:

a)Young girls are being sold into the sex-trafficking trade,

b)They are being raped

c)They are subjected to child abuse,

d)Women are forced to sex-selective abortion,

e)They are subjected to infanticide, to neglect, to dowry deaths and honor killings.

15.Gender discrimination in USA:

a)A stark and recent example of sexism is Hillary Clinton being judged according to the clothes she wears and her looks, thereby belittling what she stands for intellectually, as she makes a bid for the President’s office in the U.S.

b)Despite the emancipation of women in the this country, there has not been a single
woman president to this date.

16.Some of the acts passed by Indian constitution to prevent gender discrimination are:

a)In 1987, The Indecent Representation of Women (Prohibition) Act was passed to prohibit indecent representation of women through advertisements or in publications, writings, paintings, figures or in any other manner.

b)In 1961, the Government of India passed the Dowry Prohibition Act,[40] making the dowry demands in wedding arrangements illegal.

c)In 1985, the Dowry Prohibition (maintenance of lists of presents to the bride and bridegroom) rules were framed.

d)The Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005 came into force on October 26, 2006 to prevent the incidents of domestic violence are higher among the lower Socio-Economic Classes.

e)The Immoral Traffic (Prevention) Act was passed in 1956 to prevent women from forced prostitution, domestic work or child labor.

f)All medical tests that can be used to determine the sex of the child have been banned in India, due to incidents of these tests being used to get rid of unwanted female children before birth. Female infanticide (killing of girl infants).

@ Gender Discrimination

Hi ppl.

When we are talking of Gender discrimination here, we need to understand one fundamental point. In this male dominated society , everything is from the male point of view. So we could in fact call the topic female discrimination !

For a moment, lets think i m a very biased man . Orthodox of course. And born in India .
Well , these qualifications are enough for me to criticize on any woman at home or at work.
My opinions will always be accepted, though they may be useless in reality..while better ideas suggested by the "women of the house" are trash by default.

Lets also take for instance that i have children, and being in India, have quite a few of them. Probably a son and a daughter. Son is in the 4th class. Daughter.? She learns cooking and helps her mother. Why ? She'll need that in the future more than ABCs ...

Lets get back to the Indian households. The people, mostly rural , have even more stunning practices when it comes to gender. People think of girls as a burden , right from day one of the child's birth. While some go to extremes [female infanticide] , others make a quick buck selling their children for mere hundreds . Such is the condition of rural India.

Females are restricted to their homes, forbidden to make intelligent conversations, and never given a chance to develop.

Don't think Urban India is better though, coz even more ghastly things happen here... Here females are discriminated from the foetal stage itself ! If you happen to make it through, you'll be viewed as a burden who'll get married and take all the family wealth with her ..

Coming to education, you can observe there are lots of young girls who score top marks in examinations. A few years later , you see them in a supermarket , buying goods for their children , and saying they are housewives !!

Now , back to the modern Indian scenario ...

Social activists call for "Equality of rights for women !"
Women demand : "33 % reservation for women !"

Hey... which one's the better option ? Think about the two of them !

Lots of support groups and self help groups have sprung up to take the cause for women. Such groups face political pressure in carrying out activities. Why ? The biased people of our parents generation, are now our politicians.... What do you expect of them ?

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The media and entertainment industry ,which changes the perceptions of all the viewers, treats them as 'objects' of glamor instead of working to improve the status if women in the society . This creates the necessary impetus for the younger generations to form their won biases ans stereotypes... and the results are more crimes and abuse of women.
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Outside India. gender has nothing to do with anything at all.. People do all sorts of crazy things with their lives there, but then, they are not restricted by anybody ,especially by their family .

I dont say we change our thinking radically.. i say we think together to make our society a better place ! This is our generation. Age old ideas and useless gender rules must be obliterated . Our children must not even know such things existed ! It could be a good start , at least for our children !

Friday, March 5, 2010

Expression of thoughts

Welcome Blogger,
Well this is a JAB (* not JUST ANOTHER BLOG), to make you feel what is happening around. "Let the THOUGHTS be shared from all DIRECTIONS" is the concept of our blog . We are not experts , we are not professionals writers , but we are the Fresh Thoughts to ignite you to discuss and share .
Things change with TIME. That which never changes with time , but only changes with Thinking is our CHARACTER. The RESPECT can last for few years with MONEY , but a lifetime is only the character. This CHARACTER can be either GOOD or BAD . GOOD thoughts can bring You and your surroundigs GOOD . BAD can make YOU feel GOOD for split of a life time only. GOOD change is always a slow process, while BAD spreads fast.
While we are here to discuss the topics which influence YOU and ME. Lets give a thought to change, which builds our mind to be LEADER who is a good follower too.
The working of this blog follows conventional style of Group Discussion. Lets see FrameWork
  • A TOPIC NAME IS POSTED .
  • EACH PERSON STARTS OF WITH THIER POINT OF THOUGHT WITH RELEAVANT INFORMATION.
  • VOCABULARY SHOULD BE LISTED WITH MEANINGS AND SYNONYMS.
  • OBSCENITY IN ANY FASHION IS NOT ENTERTAINED.
  • AFTER TOPIC IS CALLED OFF . EACH PERSON SHOULD GIVE A CONCLUSION

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